First up on yesterday's show was the subject of haggling. Personally, because of my age, I've never had to haggle. That's always been up to my mom, however, now that I'm growing up I am finding myself trying to always get a bargain. I generally only buy things that I need when they're on sale. I am very good about separating a need from a want. I usually only buy facial cleaners, makeup, deoderant, toothpaste, etc. That stuff I need. Every now and then if I see a shirt that's marked down I might get it, but when I go home, I'll search for a shirt I know I haven't worn in ages and I'll put it somewhere so I can donate it later. The only time I catch myself making an issue with haggling is when something is marked a certain price and comes up wrong. Now, because I used to work in a grocery store I understand that maybe something was in the wrong spot or mismarked or was on sale the week before, but, because I did work in a store I know that a store's policy is to give me the price indicated on a sticker. I try not to make a big fuss in the line if there are people standing behind me but I will say something just so people are made aware of the mistake. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8SQCROwqlRs
Next up was respect for your elders. I was brought up to just do so automatically but I always want respect given to me by them as well. I'm always fascinated by stories from people older than me. Because so much happened before my time I almost feel like life didn't exist before me. Kind of a selfish thing to say but I didn't get to experience all of that cool stuff so it's hard to imagine that it actually happened. But, I've noticed while working with the public that although I give respect and certain people expect that respect, those same people aren't so quick to dish it out themselves. I would have tons of elderly people complain because the only cashiers open were young kids and maybe I had checked my phone for the time and they would go off on a tangent about how we're always connected to our phones... blah blah blah. For the most part I would just let them go, but if there was a problem when it came to not understanding something, I'm sorry I would let them know if they were wrong. Apparently, they don't like that and then the "you young kids today don't know anything, you have no manners, you need to learn respect"... and it would be at that moment that I would stop their tirade and point out that before I learn respect they need to learn how to dish it out themselves, not automatically expect it, and not be hypocrites. Sorry but if you want my respect, you'll have to earn it and give me some as well. I don't give my services for free. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8E7Pmq7aY8
Thirdly, and really my territory, was about DIY. Being a tomboy I always want to prove that I can do something myself. I'm man enough to figure it out but I'm also woman enough to read directions. I like that aspect of me. Granted I wouldn't go about putting up shelves in my house without proper research but I know I could do it and properly at that. I can't really comment to too much about this subject since I don't have an apartment or a house, but I can say that since my father has passed away, my mom depends on me to do some of the things he would normally do. Like if something breaks she always looks to me to know how to fix it. Thank God I spent time with my father learning that stuff because I know when men are taking advantage of the woman situation. Also, I agree with Sherrie. Wish we could all twitch our noses and everything would be the way we wanted. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xeWEheZAd90
Lastly on yesterday's show was the topic of weight.The question was, does weight affect your self esteem? It most certainly can affect self esteem but not always negatively. There is nothing wrong with looking in the mirror and wanting to lose weight or tone up to be healthy, but, we need to know when to draw the line. Just because one has a muffin top or love handles doesn't mean one has to be depressed. Especially in the winter time, unless you're going on holiday, who is going to see you? Embrace the fat because it'll help keep you warm. However, no one
wants to look like a beached whale so maybe come March the weight loss can begin. People just need to do their research and understand that a successful weight loss program includes a proper diet and exercise. And not just moderate walking. Sweating burns calories as does an increased heart rate, the more one sweats the more calories and fat are burned. Experts say at least 30 minutes of cardio a day should be enough to get moderate results. However, I think that should be changed to an hour. Half hour for cardio and the other half for muscle toning. Also, sweat suits need to be emphasized. If done properly, wearing a sweat producing suit can increase the loss of water weight which is a huge factor is a person's weight. Half the time we're all just bloated. I don't really want to spend too much time, as I am not certified, but I do want to say that I agree with Denise there's no happy medium. We as people shouldn't obsess over being skinny but we shouldn't condone obesity either. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9gnx_cKFwY
Okay so now for today's show 1.8.2010
First up, concerning the big freeze that's gripping the world at the moment, is how to stay warm in the cold weather. I just want to say that Carol McGiffin looks like Obi Wan Kenobi meets the Emperor in that thing and as much as I hate the idea of a snuggie, I'm sure it works. It looks like it works.I say the best way to stay warm is to not go outside at all. My hands are always cold. Hands, feet, nose and toes are always FREEZING! But, when I go to bed I'm always kicking off the covers. I don't have a lot of covers on the bed but I always end up kicking them off. Don't know what Jane's talking about with the whole milk and honey thing but a bath sure would be nice but the water always gets cold and who the hell has time for a bath really. We're in a recession we need to work work work. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RIHD2-Hy4Mg
Next up is fitness goals. Not just for us, but for our men. I don't have one but I like my men to be muscular. Not just cut, but muscular. I like the fact that I'm short and that men are always taller than me so I like that protected feeling. Nothing too Arnold Shwarzenegger like but I do like muscle. Just something about a guy flexing and the right muscle's bulging ooh I quite like that. Plus if the right muscle is flexing, ooh got to stop myself. To be serious though I think Ruth is right. Her fiance Eamonn isn't exactly the most slim man but she loves him for him and we need to not worry so much about a man's physical appearance. Not to say physical attraction isn't important but it needs to not be the basis because if it is, that relationship will NOT last. And as one gets older they might be lonely and no one wants that. People need to pick themselves up by the bootstraps and embrace what God and Nature have given us. It is what it is and it was meant to be that way! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rGmZHBxtUPQ
Now it's time for my favrotie topic from today's show. How hard do you find it not to be too nasty during arguments? HAHA! Oh where to being? For those who don't know me, my mouth is a powerful weapon. A powerful, powerful weapon and I use it very often. However, I'm finding that as I'm getting older I'm not saying quite as much as I used to. I think it's just because people are way too sensitive and take everything to heart and I don't want to hear the crap that people say in retaliation. However, there are some people that I have gotten into arguments that absolutely need to be told nasty things so they know how I feel about them and how they come across. This is a very heated topic for me and I don't have the space on here to get too into it but I'll just say that I am not one to cross when it comes to arguments. But this thing about not yelling at each other in France is just ridiculous. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onrGx-rfvgA
Lastly is something that I find as a seal when it comes to love. Seeing a man's vulnerable side. It's hard enough getting a man to admit his feelings so when a man feels comfortable enough to reveal his vulnerable side well then that's just fantastic. I think if I saw that side of someone all the time I would get sick of it, it would be nice to know that he's not as strong as he thinks he is and that I might have to pick up his pieces. Maybe because I truly am a caring person, though some might not think so, I want to be everyone's rock. I know it's not the sensible thing but so far so good. I can just handle a lot and I deal with things in my own way that help relieve some of that pressure to take care of everybody and I actually gain pleasure out of it. So to see someone in the light I think is a beautiful thing that can only strengthen a relationship. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnUwaAZSi7w
Sorry for not being so specific tonight still dealing with the headaches and can't think clearly. I promise the next blog will be better. Have a great weekend!
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